Well, we’ve been told to “Stay at Home” for over a month now due to COVID-19. I have a daughter with asthma, so my family chose to gradually start this without the governor’s or president’s directions. The first official week was hard, but it seemed to make it a bit easier on my children when they realized their friends were now staying at home, too.
Overall, I think we’ve been doing okay with it all. We have mostly good days. I’ve had a couple of rough days, not bad days, but not-so-good days. One was, I think, a drowsy effect from allergy medicine and just earlier this week I had trouble feeling motivated in the morning. I really felt like I was in the Ground Hog Day movie as I was pushing myself out of bed. Now academic co ops will be online for the remainder of the school year, most stores are still closed, and our lives are simply different and we don’t know for how long. There are days that I just don’t want to do another household chore. I want to go in a store to sniff candles or perfumes. I want to walk around downtown while my daughters are in ballet and stop in a coffee shop. I want to make an appointment to get my hair trimmed, maybe in face framing layers. I want to get my new contacts and glasses from my optometry appointment on March 1st.
It’s when I’m having a gloomier day that I have decided to remind myself to focus on the good things and count my blessings. My family has been healthy and my husband is still working. In addition to almost appreciating the break from being a taxi driver for my active children, I have found several other positive things about spending more time at home.
- Better rest. I seem to sleep better when I’m not worried about getting up to my alarm to get my daughter to her co op classes on time. I still wake up at the same time, but I have better rest through the night.
- Tidy book shelves. We have a book shelf that was in disarray for a long time. It was still the home to games and books the children have not used in three to five years. I finally took an afternoon and discarded the old items, had one daughter put yarn yarn in bins, and I re-organized the shelves for school books. Now that we aren’t rushing to put books away to leave the house for the next activity, they are taking their time to put their books away neatly.
- Organized plastic ware cupboard. It has been a disaster for YEARS! I’m honestly not sure if much has been done with it since we moved in over ten years ago. One day after lunch, I sat on the kitchen floor, opened the cupboard door and got busy. We have decided to discard most plastic food storage items due the the toxicity, so it was just a matter of gathering the old things and making a couple of trips out to our recycling bin. I kept a few in case they are needed for packed lunches or to send leftovers with guests. I shelved our new glass storage ware in an organized manner which will be easy for my children to maintain when they are putting dishes away. This project which was several years overdue only took FIFTEEN MINUTES!
- Time to sew. My youngest has been asking me to teach her to sew for several months now and my excuse had always been that we need a good chunk of time. The first weekend of all this she reminded me that we have a good chunk of time as she cleaned off her desk to make a nice sewing area. I brought my sewing machine out of the closet, threaded it, and it jammed when I tried a few practice stitches before my attempt to teach her. We have more time to sew when I find the motivation to figure it out again. I must do that soon.
- Time to paint. The first weekend I placed an online order from Hobby Lobby for canvases, acrylic paints, and brushes. A week later when they arrived my kitchen table was occupied for three days as my daughters revisited their inner artists. I thoroughly enjoy the finished products.
- Daily talks with Mom. I have always talked to my mom two or three times a week, but with this new lifestyle we have I look forward to calling my mom everyday. I’m extremely grateful for my brothers and their wives who live near her and are making sure she has groceries and is well. I know she is grateful, too.
- Walks with my husband. My husband is fortunate to still be working and two days he gets to work from home. We go for two mile walks a few days a week. This is something we haven’t done in years. I really savor this time with him as we walk, talk, and reconnect. I hope this becomes a new normal for us.
I don’t know when things will get back to normal, or the “new normal” as it may be, but I assume it will be a gradual return. In the meantime, I will try not to focus on the things I miss, rather I will savor this time and what I like about being at home.